In my last post, I talked about Rogaine and the misleading nature of their advertising campaign. If you watch their commercials, you would think that their product helps you keep your hair. But actually, they only tell you part of the story. The bottom line is that they don’t have a product that will save your hair. It just strings you a long for a little bit longer and in the meantime, they make their money.
I recently read this article on the blog Young Hair Loss, which is a good resource for hair loss sufferers in general. The author talks about using a product called Nizoral, which is actually a shampoo. In the article, he describes how he was more or less tricked into thinking the product was working based on the previous commentary he had heard about the product. This same factor can have an impact when it comes to things like Rogaine as well. When we see these slick marketing campaigns, there are seeds planted in our brains that tell us “this product works.” Then, once we start using the product, we subconsciously search for evidence that it is working, despite the fact that it may be doing absolutely nothing!
These big companies are not going to tell you the truth about why you are going bald or how you can stop it. They want to keep you in the dark so that they can string you along for as long as possible. Once they’ve milked you for your money, they don’t really care whether you arrive at a solution in the end or not. I talked about this in a previous post as well. You always need to consider who has your interests in mind. If you want the facts on male pattern baldness, read this – an article from an impartial source that is not trying to make money off of you. You won’t find the same information from a company like Rogaine. They will have you believe that hair loss is a simple problem, easily resolved by applying their foam all over your scalp every day. Now, I’m sure they have their fine print somewhere, but just think about that term for a minute: fine print. There is a reason why they make those words so small.
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Rogaine is one of the most popular hair loss treatment products on the market. It’s a product that has been around for years, with a fairly decent track record and a relatively limited amount of common side effects. It’s also become a popular buzzword when it comes to bald or balding guys and pretty much everyone is familiar with Rogaine, either from a joke or from one of their commercials. They have a large market and it’s clear that they are making money as they spend a lot of money on advertising. Many guys wonder if Rogaine is legitimate. Can it really stop your hairloss? The short answer is no, but I will explain in more detail in the rest of this post.
Rogaine does not stop you from going bald. What it does do is help you re-grow hair. Basically, you will continue to lose the same amount of hair, but Rogaine will step in and help your re-grow hair more rapidly so that you can try to keep up appearances. The problem is that as you become increasingly bald, Rogaine is going to run out of follicles to re-grow. Once a follicle is miniaturized, don’t expect Rogaine to come in and revive it. This is why their commercials are so misleading. They don’t tell you that the product does nothing to fight baldness. Really, all you are doing is running in place for a little bit longer.
I confess, I did try Rogaine, but I tried in conjunction with Propecia, a DHT blocker that is taken as a pill. Propecia helps stop hair loss at the source and together with Rogaine, this is a great one-two punch. The Propecia stops the hair loss at the root and the Rogaine helps re-grow the hair.
There was only one problem with this strategy. The Propecia produced awful side effects for me. I tried to endure them for a little bit (after all, I really didn’t want to lose my hair), but after a while it was too much. I asked my doctor (who originally prescribed me to Propecia) and he told me that I should stop taking the medication. After a couple of weeks, things started to get back to normal. I have since learned that some guys do not recover from some of these side effects, and to be honest, I would have been pretty miserable if that was the case.
Anyway, I stopped taking the Rogaine at the same time. It didn’t make sense for me to put Rogaine in my hair every day, because it wasn’t actually addressing the problem. It was just buying me a little bit of time. That idea, that you are doomed either way, is discouraging and I decided I would rather own up to my hair loss problem sooner rather than later. And hence the reason I shaved my head, which I will get to in a future post.
Some will tell you it’s not possible. You just can’t be a good looking bald guy. To them, the idea of an attractive bald guy is an oxymoron. Well, is it true? Are you doomed to a life of misery and hell if you start losing your hair. Is this more or less a death sentence? To some guys. it seems like it can be, but for other guys, it seems not to affect them in the slightest bit. How can we explain this difference?
People think that some guys have the right face for going bald or that some guys have the proper skin tone. Well, like the say, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We can’t really make a scale here that applies to anyone, so if we have to really look at things on a case by case basis and while some people will find a certain bald guy unattractive, others may feel differently. We can say that there are a few things a bald guy can do to increase his odds of attraction, however, and we will talk about those now.
Dress your best
You might think this is a no-brainer, but the question is really what you think is meant by “dress your best.” If you think it is avoiding shorts and t-shirts, that’s only one part of the story. The biggest problem most guys have is that they don’t wear clothes that fit them. If you don’t know what a good fit is, take a Saturday afternoon and go down to your local department store. Find a woman who works in the clothes section and have her help you size some things up. Feel free to put on a little fashion show while trying not to feel self-conscious about yourself. Oh, and buy some nice clothes. If you invest a little coin, the clothes will look better and they will last longer. If you buy $30 shirts and $50 pants, you may have some problems with fit and they will only last so many washes anyway.
Get yourself in shape
If you’re overweight, your first priority needs to be to lose enough weight to get to where you should be for your height. You can figure this out with a bit of internet research, but you should be able to do an eyeball test yourself just by looking in the mirror. The truth is that you probably know if you are overweight or not. If you are not overweight, that does not mean you should neglect your physical form. Get in the gym and see what areas you can improve on. It could be adding some muscle or some bulk, or it could simply be toning a few areas. The great thing about working on your physical form is that you don’t need any surgery or money to do so. You simply have to put in time and effort. I know, this is easier said than done, but at the end of the day, it’s more possible than many other options.
Add something different
Growing a beard or wearing a different frame of glasses can completely change your look and it may something as small as one of these things that suddenly makes you attractive to certain women. Some guys opt for tattoos as well. The bottom line is that you should feel free to experiment a bit. Any one of these things can help set you apart.
Every one of us has been programmed in one way or another to appreciate certain physical aspects of other human beings. We look at a girl and most people will either find her attractive or not. That said, there will always be people that don’t fit the norm in terms of what their perspectives are an in terms of what they find beautiful. For example, some guys are attracted to women that are considered overweight by others. This would seem to defy evolutionary logic, but it’s not like those guys are battling their subconscious to be attracted to girls of that size – they are simply attracted to them! It’s a chemical thing, and there’s not much you can do about it.
Magazines, TV and movies can also shape our predispositions. They are seen as credible sources of information and whether we think that or not on a conscious level, there is plenty going on in our subconscious. Generally, actors and actresses fit a certain physical profile and most people are striving to achieve something like that themselves. And now I am starting to get to my ultimate point.
As a bald guy, there are lots of people that think I must be sad or depressed. After all, I don’t fit the ideal physical profile of a guy my age. I don’t have much to say to these people, other than the fact I know I am not depressed and there is not really room for argument there. The thing is, while there companies like Rogaine that would love for me to be depressed enough to be reaching for a variety of hair loss treatment products, I realize that I am a unique individual and that if I am self-confident, my appearance is not an issue. I am not going to get all the ladies. I know that. But, hey, that was true even before I started going bald. Now, I find that there are random women who actually say that they are attracted to me because of my bald head. I thought this was not how it was supposed to work, but like I said earlier, not everyone fits into a neat box when it comes to their preferences for the opposite sex.
So when you see advertisements from these hair loss treatment companies, think about who really has their interest in mind. These companies are not looking out for you. They just want to make you feel bad enough about yourself that you will buy one of their products. It’s all pretty pathetic when you really think about it.